Archie Jay Lomas

My heart goes out to you all and I hope you take strength in knowing your son will always be with you.

Fly high lil Archie you are an angel now. xx

Elaine Alderman February 14, 2009

Sweet child whom we never really got to know,
It’s hard for us to let you go.
We waited and we wanted you.
We had so many dreams for you.

We think of smiles we'll never see.
We think of events that will never be.
There will be no first steps and no first teeth.
There is only a void and our own grief.

We planned to take you to places far and near.
We yearned to keep you safe and free from fear.
We hoped to show you much of your new world.
We wanted to teach you as your life unfurled.

It’s hard to understand why you, our baby, died.
We feel so numb right now, many tears we’ve cried.
We have so many questions and no answers seem to come.
We tried so hard to save you; nothing could be done.

God, we stand before you broken-hearted
and ask you to heal these lives that must be parted
from this little one we can no longer hold,
who will always be a part of us, even when we're old.

God, take this child in your loving arms.
No more can he suffer any harm.
Bless him always and bless us too.
Be with us and help us to make it through.

Elaine Alderman February 14, 2009

Our beautiful nephew

Thank you to everyone for your love and support for Kym, Jamie and the family. It means more than you will ever know.
Our darling nephew Archie, you are the most beautiful thing to have ever touched our lives. I'm so glad we got to see you arrive in the world and show you how much we both loved you. Sleep tight our tiny little angel. X
Charley Webb, Jamies sister and Kyms best friend.
Matthew Wolfenden Charleys boyfriend, Archies Uncle and Kym and Jamies friend. X

Charleymatthew Webbwolfenden February 13, 2009

our Little Angel

We would just like to say thank you so much to everyone for all your beautiful messages and poems. Every word, poem and kind thought mean so much to us all. Every second of every day is so painful to get through, but we are gaining strength from people like yourselves, who are thinking of us and our family. We know that a lot of you have been through what we are going through and are so sorry for your losses too. Archie, though only with us for a short time, is a very special little boy, and to know he has touched so many is amazing.

We would also just like to say thank you so much to our family. They were there with us every step of the way and without them we would never have got through. We love you. xxxxx

Our beautiful angel Archie, holding you was the best experience of our lives. You are our special little boy and we miss you every second. David, Emily and Billy love you so much and only wish they had got to play with you and cuddle you. Night night our little angel, sweet dreams. We Love you always and forever. Mummy and daddy xxxxxx

Thank you again. Jamie Lomas and Kym Marsh xxx

Kym Marsh Jamie Lomas February 13, 2009

beautiful angel

i am thinking of you kym, jamie and family at this sad time
your little angel will be there with you all the time
lots of love
david ryan deans mummy and daddy xxxxx

Paula Duffy And David Smallbone February 13, 2009

Sending you my love & thoughts xxx

Don't tell me that you understand
Don't tell me that you know,
Don't tell me that I will survive
Or how I will surely grow.

Don't tell me that this is just a test
That I am truly blessed
That I am chosen for this task
Apart from all the rest.

Don't come at me with answers
That can only come from me,
Don't tell me how my grief will pass,
That I will soon be free.

Don't stand in pious judgment
Of the bounds I must untie,
Don't tell me how to suffer
And don't tell me how to cry!

My life is filled with selfishness,
My pain is all I see,
But, I need you now,
I need your love, unconditionally.

Accept me in my ups and downs,
I need someone to share,
Just hold my hand and let me cry,
And say, "My friend, I care."

Shelly Gleed (GTS Friend) February 13, 2009

Thinking of you all.

I was so sorry to hear of your loss kym and jamie,we have an angel baby also she passed away at 23 weeks gestation,last march 13th,and it still hurts.it's such a sad time for you all as a family,support one another and cherish your memories of archie,who will forever be in your hearts,he will never be forgotten,so sorry for you all take care and love to angel archie.xxxx

Holly'S Mummy February 13, 2009

Thinking of Kym, Jamie & family at this sad time

Kerry xxxxx

Kerry Dixon February 13, 2009

A Mother

What Makes a Mother"
by Jennifer Wasik

I thought of you and closed my eyes
And prayed to God today.
I asked what makes a Mother
And I know I heard him say...

A mother has a baby
This we know is true.
But, God, can you be a mother
when your baby is not with you?

Yes, you can He replied,
With confidence in His voice.
I give many women babies
When they leave is not their choice.

Some I send for a lifetime,
And others just for a day.
And some I send to feel your womb,
But there's no need to stay.

I just don't understand this God,
I want my baby here.
He took a breath and cleared His throat
And then I saw a tear.

I wish I could show you
What your child is doing today.
If you could see your child smile
With other children and say:

"We go to earth to learn our lessons
Of love and life and fear.
My mummy loved me oh so much
I got to come straight here.

I feel so lucky to have a mum
Who has so much love for me.
I learned my lessons very quickly,
My mummy set me free.

I miss my mummy Oh so much,
But I visit every day.
When she goes to sleep
On her pillow is where I lay.

I stroke her hair and kiss her cheek
And I whisper in her ear.
Mummy don't be sad today,
I'm your baby and I'm here."

So, you see my dear sweet one,.
Your babies are here in MY home,
They'll be at Heaven's gate waiting just for you.

So now you see what makes a mother,
It's the feeling in your heart.
It's the love you had so much of,
Right from the very start.

Though some on earth may not realize you are a mother,
Until their time is done.
They'll be up here with Me one day,
And they'll know you were the best one!

Xxx Laura Xxx February 13, 2009

Sleep tight....

Good night little Archie, your an angel now looking down from above!!! My thoughts are with you both Kim & Jamie at this sad time. xxxx

Tammi Scott February 13, 2009